To Buy or Not to Buy – Our First Home

11 Jun

I am currently in the midst of freaking out and incessantly thinking about the possibility of purchasing a home.

I thought I had most of the figures down until I found myself on this link: Is It Better to Buy or Rent? According to the numbers that I put in, it would be better for us to rent for the time being, which makes me sad in a way.

Purchasing our first home is an incredibly scary thing for us. We have been saving up money for a few years now and we finally have enough to put 20% down on certain properties. In our area, a major city, we cannot afford anything but co-ops and the occasional condo. I have a feeling that when I ask for a cashier’s check of nearly $70,000 to put down as a down payment, I might throw up. Really.

Part of me feels conflicted because I want a place of my own. Part of me feels conflicted because a co-op is not my dream home. My dream home has space, a backyard and a pool. My dream home is not what I could only describe as “having that apartment feel.” By space, I don’t mean a huge house—I just mean something we could grow into together.

My husband and I have been pretty set on purchasing a two-bedroom co-op. Right now we rent a one-bedroom apartment for $1300.00/month. We actually live in a pretty nice building but it has a lot of things I don’t like such as:

  • The only thing the kitchen has going for it is the space—it’s actually a big kitchen for most apartments I have seen in the area and has a lot of cabinet space. The kitchen has an ugly laminate floor that is not only coming up in certain areas but is put on in such an incredibly lazy way that the second half of the kitchen “tiles” do not line up with the first half. The backboard is crooked and not even against the wall. There are holes/spaces near the floor.
  • The bathroom is disgusting. Both the pipes in the sink and tub seem to ALWAYS be clogged. For whatever reason the ventilation is awful and we always have mold growing. The stuff is coming up off of the tub floor.
  • Last year we had an awful storm and water started to leak through the brick. The building had to be repointed and the super said after it was finished, he would come in and paint over where the water leaked through and left yellow stains. Never happened. We have a live-in super and considering he had to do this on every floor for multiple sections of the building I find it hard to “forget.”
  • Awkward things like a door to the living room, a super dark hallway, small foyer that ends up being a haphazard desk area
  • Roaches!

At the same time there are things I do like:

  • Rooms are a nice size
  • Daytime doorman
  • Building, overall, is nice and has laundry downstairs; close to train
  • Rent is okay for us

WHAT WE WANTED FOR OUR HOME

  • Wanted a two-bedroom or a one-bedroom large enough to perhaps alter into a second room
  • Wanted a private outdoor space such as a terrace
  • Lower maintenance costs
  • Washer/dryer on-site

THE CONDO

There has only been one condo for sale that we could remotely afford. Crunching some numbers, paying the mortgage plus the maintenance would actually cost us either slightly less or slightly more than what we pay now. The taxes were relatively low and given the fact we could claim our mortgage interest, I think it would work out to our benefits.

PROS

  • Cheaper for us
  • Had a terrace
  • Had a W/D in the unit
  • Had a small storage space in the basement
  • Had a parking spot—extremely, extremely rare

CONS

  • My guy absolutely hated it
  • Definitely need a little work
  • Smaller than the place we’re in now

SUMMATION

I guess I have a little more vision but I saw some potential in there to really fix up some things and turn a profit on it. I liked the fact that we could rent it out in the future, unlike most co-ops, and I think we could actually turn a profit on the place either renting or selling. However, as much as I am willing to make an offer, my man is not and I’m not going to force him into something he doesn’t like even though I have really tried to sell it to him.

THE CO-OP

The very first co-op we saw is the one we keep coming back to. It’s approximately 280 square feet larger than the condo (880 square feet) and has two bedrooms.

PROS

  • Sick of living in big buildings and this is a very small co-operative unit that looks like a row of houses
  • Two bedrooms
  • Open feel
  • Terrace
  • Very low maintenance that is 50% tax deductible—the maintenance rate is unheard of in our area
  • Separate/private entrance
  • Private storage area in the basement
  • Doesn’t need a lot of work—mostly cosmetic stuff that we could live with for now

CONS

  • Kitchen is kind of small
  • Bedrooms are kind of small
  • Currently no W/D on site—we have to see if they’ll let us put one in the basement—additional expense
  • Eventually would like to add a dishwasher—another additional expense
  • Parking in that area is worse than where we are now and there might be three spots somewhere but they are wait list and I doubt we’re anywhere near the top
  • Would cost us more than our current rent
  • Cannot sublease in the future

SUMMATION

We are actually working on bidding for this place. We are going to bid quite a bit less than the asking. We’re still in the process of figuring out our loan stuff (trying to get a better rate) and obtaining a lawyer.

Although the money maintenance and mortgage would be more than our rent right now, our rent would eventually increase again. Additionally, the mortgage interest and half of the maintenance are tax deductible, so I think this will almost allow us to break even.

NOT FOR THE WEAK

Buying a house is emotionally draining. It really is. And as much as I try to stay logical about it, I still find it to be such an emotionally wrapped up decision. As much as I can make an argument for the condo, will we be happy in a place we don’t particularly like? I need my home to be a place I enjoy being in—not somewhere I want to run from.

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One Response to “To Buy or Not to Buy – Our First Home”

  1. MyMoneyDesign.com June 13, 2012 at 4:40 pm #

    You bring back all my scares and fears about buying my first home. It sounds to me like the co-op is the better deal even if it does cost just a little more.

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